This story is from http://wiseandloving.wordpress.com do you guys have any suggestions for her? She says Hello nolimitvoices! I do have the topic of love I’d like to discuss. My hope is that some un-bias advice will help the situation. Here it goes…….After a 12 year on and off relationship it was time to sit or get off the pot. My friends ex boyfriend asked for her hand in marriage, but she was not willing to uproot her life to another location without the necessary support needed for her survival, just yet. Necessary support included a stable home, stable environment, an engagement ring, health coverage and the comfort of knowing she could land a job within the area he resided in. Her ex boyfriend never believed for a moment that she was going to leave her job and relocate. So they broke up once again. Now…the ex boyfriend calls after 8 months to let her know he is now married and living in another location. WAIT GET THIS…BUT HE STILL LOVES HER. AND WANTS TO BE FRIENDS. My friend is dumbfounded and extremely upset at this news. I’m not clear on what happened exactly, but it sounds to me like a serious communication gap took place. Perhaps she led him to believe she wasn’t interested so he let go. But is it fair to her? She’s feeling like he stole 12 years of her life and filled it with broken promises and insecurities. I am somewhat baffled myself. I really want her to let go and move on. Not sure what to tell her. Any suggestions?